Observe, do not end up with Mr.Wrong!
Repeat after me, saying that “I’m doing this because I love him” is just plain bullsh*t.
Love is blind. Well, it may be really blind, but a Rules Girl is not and never stupid!
It’s important to take a time to reflect and see how your man acts in your relationship.
Does he gives you a hard time, is he critical on you? Is he cheap on dates even If he earns above his salary? Remember, it’s not about the first man you are attracted with, nor the first guy who constantly calls to check up on you, nor the guy who give you a whole lot of candies, chocolates and flowers. It’s all about finding your own personal Mr. Right, the man whom you love, and a man in which has a character that you really admire and can live with till eternity!
Now, time to check.. Is he that into you?
He’s not that into you if he doesn’t make the first move.
He’s not that into you if he doesn’t call you or text you or e-mail you for a date.
He’s not that into you if he only wants to see you during the week.
He’s not that into you if he ends the date first.
He’s not that into you if he asks you to split the check.
He’s not that into you if he expects you to meet him half way or travel to him on a date.
He’s not that into you if he cancels a date more than once.
He’s not that into you if he doesn’t ask you to be exclusive after having sex.
He’s not that into you if he hits on your girlfriend.
He’s not that into you if he forgets your birthday.
He’s not that into you if he doesn’t give you a romantic gift for Valentine’s Day.
He’s not that into you if he skips a week not seeing you.
He’s not that into you if he doesn’t want to meet your parents and friends.
He’s not that into you if he doesn’t want to spend New Year’s eve with you.
He’s not that into you if he doesn’t take you to his office/school holiday party.
He’s not that into you if he doesn’t hold your hand at the movies.
He’s not that into you if he breaks up with you.
He’s not that into you if he talks about his ex.
He’s not that into you if he wants to vacation separately or spend a lot of time apart.
He’s not that into you if he’s married to someone else!
Now, double check.. Are you going out with Mr.Wrong?
He can’t express his feelings. He won’t tell you he loves you, nor he likes you.. and it’s been months since the both of you are going out. He’s just not that into you, If he was.. he will muster up the courage to let you know that you both feel the same way.
He doesn’t want to hang out with you in public. He might be ashamed to be with you or afraid that he’ll get caught by his other woman.
He’s unavailable on major holidays, Valentines Day or even his birthday! Don’t accept excuses, and remember.. men doesn’t have any excuses not to be with you at all!
He’s paranoid that you’ll look into his email, chat conversations, and phone text messages. Need I say more? That man is definitely hiding something from you! Men with nothing to hide will always let you see what’s on their phone. What is it to hide anyway? Except if they have other commitments, right?
He yells at you, hits you and make you feel you’re not worth it. Give yourself a break, you deserve someone better! Remember, any form of abuse isn’t called love.
He’s jobless and always broke. Don’t tell me that you accept him entirely of who he is. A man who is jobless and always broke doesn’t even have the right to ask you out. You wouldn’t want to be the one who pays up the bill do you?
He habitually works over time. Screw him! Is he really working overtime, or is he dating someone else after work? You might not treat this as a problem, but soon after you’ll just end up being a lonely woman. True story.
He’s always late during dates. Where is his commitment? Does he have other errands to do? If he is excited to see you and be with you, he’ll never be late.
Love is not enough. Sometimes, you need to learn and accept certain facts of REALITY.
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1pilya
written on 18 November 2009 at 14:32
the best part that i liked “He’s not that into you if he’s married to someone else!” she shouldve known this one bwahaha. sabagay kung un 10 commandments nga hindi sinunod eh lol.. two thumbs up for this one sis
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Ms. Candy Blush Reply:
November 18th, 2009 at 2:37 pm
@pilya, Haha, so true!!
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2clangchique
written on 18 November 2009 at 15:02
ahaha. i love this. He’s jobless and always broke. Don’t tell me that you accept him entirely of who he is. A man who is jobless and always broke doesn’t even have the right to ask you out. You wouldn’t want to be the one who pays up the bill do you?!
sugar mommy ang dating pag ganyan.
lurve this post te aish
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Ms. Candy Blush Reply:
November 18th, 2009 at 3:10 pm
@clangchique, Thanks sis
Kindly share it with your friends If you have time. It’s helpful 
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3Grace
written on 18 November 2009 at 15:15
I love them. It only says that he’s not into you if he doesn’t even give time to talk with you or see you. Girls can feel it if the guys’ reasons are true or just alibis. Right?
Woman’s instinct. 
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4Honney
written on 18 November 2009 at 18:10
If the guy just gives you nothing but heartaches, leave him right away. For sure, your MR. RIGHT is just waiting for you somewhere. Just be patient. Remember, “good things happen to those who wait.”
Have a blessed day!
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5Tine
written on 18 November 2009 at 19:11
ayos to. i always get something everytime i read your blog. =) ung sakin… well magulo. may mga nabanggit na he did before… kaso may reason naman. tsaka.. magulo talaga. lol
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6ran
written on 18 November 2009 at 20:56
awww. i love your post. for sure makakatulong to. haha.
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7Happi
written on 18 November 2009 at 21:10
aww. you always have the best tips, sis! =D
He’s not that into you if he talks about his ex.
He’s not that into you if he cancels a date more than once.
He’s not that into you if he doesn’t make the first move.
- my bestfriends’ boyfriend do these things always! I’m gonna share this to her! hehe! XD
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8charchar
written on 18 November 2009 at 23:20
and this is my favorite:
“He can’t express his feelings. He won’t tell you he loves you, nor he likes you.. and it’s been months since the both of you are going out. He’s just not that into you, If he was.. he will muster up the courage to let you know that you both feel the same way.”
wow sis! tama ka tama! nadali mo. hehehe! sobra nakakarelate talaga ako.
i love this post. kakarelate ako sobra. alam mo na kung sino. hehehe!
anyway, may bago na sis. and i’m so so happy. pero di pa kami. di ko pa sinasagot. hehehehe! we’ll see soon sis. hehehehehe!
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9Mizuki
written on 18 November 2009 at 23:30
He habitually works over time. Screw him! Is he really working overtime, or is he dating someone else after work? You might not treat this as a problem, but soon after you’ll just end up being a lonely woman. True story.
TRUE STORY NINO? LOL joke. ^^~
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Ms. Candy Blush Reply:
November 19th, 2009 at 12:06 am
@Mizuki, Hahahahha I don’t want to comment
) Loka!
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10Kay
written on 19 November 2009 at 19:25
Ahhh! So many he’s not that into you.. I remember tuloy the He’s Just Not that Into you na movie. HAHA
)
But I think this is not for me since… AHHH!! Heck!! I think this might be for me.
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11krizia leones
written on 19 November 2009 at 20:41
haha! nice post! I agree, If he really love you, he’ll do anything to be with you–no excuses at that. =D
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12Nadine
written on 19 November 2009 at 23:14
Oooh. This one is kinda harsh. But I like this! HAHAHAH. I hope all men reads this! At least, those who aren’t worthy. Okay, now you made me think bebs. HAHAH. Nice post again! More more more!
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13jami
written on 20 November 2009 at 12:01
he’s not that into you, i haven’t watch that movie yet! rawr! Guys are all the same and more like girls too in a different way, it’s like, boys will be boys.
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14Mariel
written on 20 November 2009 at 19:58
I can use this in the future. Thanks! Cool post btw
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15Hanae
written on 20 November 2009 at 21:26
Haha! Cool post~
I’ve got no experience in love yet but I’m gonna keep all this in mind!
I need to get all the thoughts I can have for the future. Hehehe.
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16MIMING
written on 20 November 2009 at 21:28
awwww.. :’(( naiisip ko nalang na ang damin checks si ex ko jan.. huhuhuhhuh.. T_T sana may totoo sa relationship namin kahit hunti.. T_T
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17tiff k
written on 20 November 2009 at 21:49
I read this in He’s Just Not that into you and I agree and disagree with some points haha.
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18Kat
written on 26 November 2009 at 21:48
I agree and disagree with some of it, well its only my point of view.
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superb post!
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22Lyndsay Cabildo
written on 10 December 2009 at 21:54
True, true! lol
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Super nakakaawa yung mga taong naiinlove sa maling tao.
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