The Ugly Truth with Understanding Men
How does a women knows that a man is true to her? How does she know that he is serious? Does it comes to a point where in a man will change for you?
There are so many thoughts gathering into a woman’s mind more than men could ever think.
It’s always advisable not to talk to a man you are crazy about whenever you are emotional.
Trust me, every word you are going to tell him is the wrong move. Nothing good will ever happen when you pursue a man.
It took me a lot of heartache before I’ve come to realized some of the most important things when it comes to men.
If he is into you, he will pursue you.
If a man wants to be with you, he will make it happen – no matter what!
Keep in mind to remember that, If he really is into you..
HE WILL - ask you out.
HE WILL - call you.
HE WILL - ask a date with you. (not just “hanging out” or with group of friends)
HE WILL - want to have sex with you.
HE WILL - not have sex with someone else.
HE WILL - want to see you when he’s drunk.
HE WILL - eventually want to marry you.
HE WILL - never break up with you.
HE WILL - not disappear on you.
HE WILL - not be a selfish jerk.
Every woman deserves to be with someone that are really into them. The Ugly Truth? Men doesn’t have any excuses. If they really want you, they will make a way to always be with you. It’s always important that you allow men to pursue you.
By letting men pursue, you will know If he really wants you, If he is really into you.
He will give time and effort just to make you feel that you are special.
NO EXCUSES ARE NECESSARY.
If he doesn’t do the pursuing, then stop thinking and wishing. It will never happen.. just move on.
1Candice
written on 31 October 2009 at 20:34
Aww. I will always keep this in mind. No matter what happens, if a guy likes a girl he will do whatever it takes. Thank you for the info, it will really help a lot of women.
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2TRICIA
written on 31 October 2009 at 20:34
what else can I say? i totally agree with you. but it’s really the nature of women to run after a guy who doesn’t give a shit. i just hope that all women realize their worth so that they would know that those jerks don’t deserve them. if he isn’t to the girl, she must move on and wait for someone who’ll do everything for her.
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3Toni
written on 31 October 2009 at 21:27
I totally agree. And yeah, if he’s really in love with you, he won’t let you go and all that. Thanks for the post sis. I’m not going to wait for 3 years anymore. HAAHAA. I’ll move on nalang & find a better person! c:
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4anne
written on 31 October 2009 at 22:12
I can say my tukayo is sooo into ME.
The above mention is really happening to us and I think he does more than that. Oh yea, so lucky me! ya’y! Thanks for sharing this! Ü
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5gail
written on 31 October 2009 at 22:35
aww. yeah, just let men pursue you. Sweet!
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6tiff k
written on 1 November 2009 at 0:38
omg it’s he’s not just that into you! I actually believe in some. But it’s hard to say that here because we have an Asian point of view and not Western. I think Asian guys are more shy and torpe so it’s harder to tell. hehe Oh this reminds me I have to watch the movie!! hehe
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7Char
written on 1 November 2009 at 2:30
hey sis! this is off topic..
Here’s a little present from me: http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v335/so-lushious/hh09-xoxochar.gif Happy Halloween!!!
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8aiiya
written on 1 November 2009 at 10:03
if a man wants to have sex with you it doesnt always necessarily mean that they’re into you , it can also mean they’re just horny a*holes hahah but anyways good point
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9mizuki
written on 1 November 2009 at 10:11
very true! If a man is really really into you he’ll always make a way to make it happen, NO EXCUSES! I remembered that I received a quote a year ago saying the exact words and it really made me laugh coz it’s true.
Hmmm.. meron ka bang pinariringgan na guy? XD jokes. nafeel ko lang. wahahaha. adik adik! ~ ^^~
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10mizuki
written on 1 November 2009 at 10:14
ay nalimutan ko idagdag.. amf.. napanuod ko yan, he’s not just into you wahahah very true!!! kakatawa nung pnapanuod ko yan. hahaha guys talaga. assholes. HAHAHA XD jokes ~ buti nalang ako walang pang howe. kakatamad kasi wahahah
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11Eric
written on 1 November 2009 at 10:21
waahh! now I know.. he’s not into me..
uhhm… kakaiyak.. khit pla he treats me special, and tell me that i am important, it is still not enough.. haay..
it’s ok.. i’m gonna find someone better.. haha!
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12krisel
written on 1 November 2009 at 14:15
“Keep in mind to remember that, If he really is into you..
HE WILL – want to have sex with you. ”
I guess some men are not like that sis? even if his not into you, he will pursue to have sex with you just for fun.
but the rest I absolutely agree with you sistah!
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Ms. Candy Blush Reply:
November 1st, 2009 at 8:46 pm
Hehe, well there are men that refuse to have sex w/ you yknow..
(kahit bf mo sila)
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13Jacque
written on 1 November 2009 at 14:43
While reading your post, it made me smile. Hmm. I wonder why. Lol.
HE WILL – ask you out.
HE WILL – call you.
HE WILL – want to see you when he’s drunk.
HE WILL – not disappear on you.
HE WILL – not be a selfish jerk.
^^ ayun eh, hah, pero di talaga pwede, bakit pa kasi taken na siya.
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14janelle
written on 1 November 2009 at 14:48
i’ve watched the ugly truth
haha xD di ko masyado na internalize yung “lessons” ni gerald butler. haha! tawa lang ako ng tawa sa movie xD
pero your rules, they are right. and i very much agree. yun nga lang, it’s pretty hard to spot a man who has all those potentials
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15Mhaye
written on 1 November 2009 at 15:16
damn. i think i know somebody who is really int me based on your give list ate. aaaahhh. yoko muna mainlab. hahaha.
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16Mariel
written on 1 November 2009 at 15:19
Cool. Maybe I can use this in the future!
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17iyahn
written on 1 November 2009 at 18:41
yess true nga to sis
if he wants you , he will pursue you.
pero sis minsan may mga guys na nakikiramdam pa , yung tipong papakiramdaman nila kung gusto mo ba sakanila o hinde . :/
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18iish
written on 1 November 2009 at 19:20
ei thanks for sharing this…..
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19MIMING
written on 1 November 2009 at 20:47
awww..super tama nito sis.. naku.. nakakatocuh!! waaaa.. sobrang napaisip ako dito ah.. hehehe..:) eto tlaga oh.. “if a man wants to be with you, he will make it happen..” <3
take care
xoxo, MIMING
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20Miss Cherry
written on 1 November 2009 at 22:14
aww ganun pla un? nice naman.. super nakarelate ako. sa kadami2 ng lalaking dumating sa buhay ko, wala atang matino.. ito lang ngaun ang matino-tino, pwde ng pagtyagaan hahaha
) ang galing sister, tama ito 
may new post ako sis.
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21kathrinx™
written on 1 November 2009 at 23:04
ouchh.. ang sakit nun ahh,. para akong tinaga. haizzt.. anu ba ‘toh nararamdaman q now. yer post is really true sis- proven and tested!! totoo pala noh? the truth really hurts..
:( *wallbash
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22ann
written on 2 November 2009 at 0:25
HE WILL – ask you out.
HE WILL – call you.
HE WILL – ask a date with you. (not just “hanging out” or with group of friends)
HE WILL – want to have sex with you.
HE WILL – not have sex with someone else.
HE WILL – want to see you when he’s drunk.
HE WILL – eventually want to marry you.
HE WILL – never break up with you.
HE WILL – not disappear on you.
HE WILL – not be a selfish jerk.
lahat yan tama… at ginawa talaga niya
does it mean he’s really in to me?
wow.
thanks for sharing
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23Honeul
written on 2 November 2009 at 3:33
oh, Aisha dear. Happy Birthday!
This is a nice share, girl. Actually, a guy from work needs this advices. Mejo nagkakalabuan sila ng wifey nya and maybe, just maybe, this can help their marraige
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24jeanu
written on 2 November 2009 at 6:43
i read from honeul it is your birthday today, btw happy birthday hehe
well about the post.waa very well said , i will remember this even if i still dont have boyfriend yet LOL, some other time magkakaroon din and maybe this will help me
thanks a lot for this
PS: btw I have a new post photoshop tutorial post, if you have some time you can read and drop a comment
Have a nice day
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25rich
written on 2 November 2009 at 12:45
Nice post! ^^ This is a great read especially to those who are confused with their guy.
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26deann
written on 2 November 2009 at 13:19
Happy Birthday bebs! naks tumaas na naman ang edad! height na lang ang hindi!
anyways, agree ako dito sobra, i lab the pos parang ung top 10 ways to seduce ur men! hahahah bonggang bongga!
more post bebssss moree!
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27Brix
written on 2 November 2009 at 14:21
one more tip coming from a guy like myself.
don’t over analyze our actions or our words. we pretty much mean what we do/say.
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28Joyce
written on 2 November 2009 at 14:43
OMG! This will be one of my favorite posts.
Super true and helpful. 
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29cynna
written on 2 November 2009 at 20:09
i was thinking about the guy I was crushing on for 3 years. sometimes nararamdaman ko he has feelings for me too, but I’m afraid to ask. you’re right, if he likes me , he’ll tell me right
oh well maybe i’ll stop dreaming
linked u na po
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30Truden
written on 3 November 2009 at 5:50
Ugh, I liked! So clear and positively.
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31Sandra
written on 3 November 2009 at 11:58
While reading that entry, there was only one man in my mind. but still I’m in doubt. HAHA. LEt’s just see what happens next!
Thanks for that. THE UGLY TRUTH. I love it! 
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32aencille
written on 4 November 2009 at 0:04
And that is the ugly truth.
The truth hurts that’s why most of us fail to accept it. Glad you shared it!
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33Katie
written on 4 November 2009 at 6:38
This is an amazing blog.
Unfortunately I’ve never met ‘him’.
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34Irene
written on 4 November 2009 at 16:42
I always like your post. This one is so true. I’m finally moving on with my life.. I realized my baby’s father and I aren’t right for each other.. I always try to pursue him but he never makes any effort to call me or contact me.. so I finally got a clue. It hurts to move on, but it makes you so much stronger.
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35Chiui
written on 4 November 2009 at 17:45
yes they WILL but not right away. some men know how to wait before they move.
So to other girls, I hope they would wait.
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36pam
written on 4 November 2009 at 18:21
very true.
hehe. 
i enjoyed reading this talaga. ^^
thanks for sharing this.
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37Gel
written on 4 November 2009 at 21:03
Gotta love that part when Justin Long told the girl in the movie that she is his exception. Aww. That’s so sweet. And yeah I agree with what you said about allowing a man to pursue you. Sometimes all it takes is patience to wait for the guy to gather up some confidence!
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38rain
written on 7 November 2009 at 4:19
well, well, well, the statements seem to be on the extreme side. sure if they love you, they will do their best to be with you, but hey, sh*t happens. sometimes, even though they did a lot of hard work, we, women, can’t appreciate it ‘coz we are busy expecting something more. so, in the end, we tend to look at their explanations for not being able to do whatever they are supposed to do perfectly as excuses. Namimisinterpret natin sila. Plus, sometimes, we girls have very unrealistic expectations, so that is something to watch out too instead of thinking if he is really into us or not, because we might be missing some other clues that they are really into us. I hope this makes sense.
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39Gretch
written on 9 November 2009 at 0:55
… Maybe some boys just have a different way of showing that they’re into you. and some girls might be a little bit demanding.Still though, I agree full-on on the “No excuses” part.
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40other side of the coin
written on 18 November 2009 at 19:18
Just thought I would vouch for the guys here, it seems many women have the above list of what THEY want and expect from a man but few look at what they are doing in return.
I like to think I am not a jerk I don’t cheat or mess around, but one rule I always apply to any relationship is that you get back what you give, and the sad truth is that generally when a women gets all of the above, and the guy tries everything to make her happy; its not a challenge or exciting enough. So she ends up with the jerks instead. Nice guys finish last remember.
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41All Women Stalker
written on 17 December 2009 at 0:09
I love the picture, it’s so true!
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